If you were a non custodial parent and found out one of your kids was really sick (like stay home from school and sleep, not hospital sick) and were offered another day for your visitation would you take it to allow the kid to feel better?
My oldest has the flu, he had a 103.6 temp yesterday and has a 101.6 temp today, he stayed home from school both days.
My ex is insisting that he take both kids (sick kid and his younger brother), because it is "HIS time with them".
1. It's not HIS time with them but THEIR time with him,.
2. He has neglected to treat the kids past illnesses other than lying to a Dr. to get my 11 yr old put on an adult dose of anti depressants that made him physically ill.
3. The reason we are divorced is because I had him arrested for domestic abuse. he still claims I am "going out of my way to make his life miserable" (how narcissistic)
I talked to the legal advocate at the local womens shelter and she said that I have offered a fair alternative (different weekend) and that if he refuses to take the alternative that when he shows up I should call the cops and use the restraining order against him, and to call her immediately so she can come and help as well.
Please send energies and strength, and if anyone knows a good lawyer in Northern WI thats willing to take payments please let me know.
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